Originally posted on Education and Class:
There’s a growing literature on how intensely middle class parents invest in their children’s success, from Annette Lareau’s now classic study showing the “concerted cultivation” parenting of extensive involvement in extra curricular activities, driving, advising, and being audience for children’s many performances; to extensive involvement in children’s daily challenges; to ongoing advice and engagement in students’ college success and then negotiating connections for first jobs.
I mention this research when I’m talking with faculty and staff who so often lament that First Generation college students “won’t ask for help”. We talk about how students who may have had to be incredibly independent and self-motivated and resourceful to get themselves to college may believe that they now have to prove that they can do it on their own, or may be doubting that they deserve help, or may simply not know that help is available. Or they may balk at the term “help”…
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